Hey yall

I know I’ve been gone awhile. Life can overextend itself sometimes and take you on roller coasters that are not expected. So please forgive me for not being present like I would like. How have you been holding up? I’m looking forward to starting a new year, to leaving 2018 behind, all of it. I learned so many lessons, lost some friends, had to take detours from plans I had made, and took some losses I didn’t think I would recover from. But as always, I bounce back and come back even stronger.

I feel like I am just beginning to slowly get back on the bandwagon of some normalcy again. So here I am, getting back in the game. If I had to leave 2018 with one motto it would be. ‘Learn the lessons and move on’. I’m learning to look at my failures as new beginnings and lessons to learn for the continuation and next phase of the journey.

So with that said, I won’t be before you long. I’m not feeling long winded, just wanted to pop in and let you know I’m coming back. Thanks for your support and your silent presence in my life. I’m more grateful for my true friends and those that are always rooting me on, even from afar.

Sometimes we don’t always have the time to pick up the phone and have a conversation with those that we love and care about as much as we would like. But those who truly understand you will still be there for you and understand that you have to take mental breaks for yourself.

So take care loves and as always I’m rooting for each and every person who takes the time to read my blog. Wishing you loads of love, happiness and success my loves. xoxoxoxoxo


Bits n Pieces…

Hey my Sleigh belles,

I know it’s been a minute. I wanna thank you guys for tuning in and giving me  a piece of your time today. This blog is just bits n pieces of life Chile. A lil fashion and what’s on trend for the fall, and seeing what you guys have been up to … quick lil chop up session wit cha … There’s been so much inspiration around us lately, with so many Queens and icons making major moves. I’m so proud of you, and inspired to take action on my goals.

Life has been so crazy lately, throwing me all kinds of curve balls but with the help of God, the universe and my angels I am recovering from some unexpected mountains I’ve had to climb. But the sign of a true hustler is one who builds with the stones thrown at her (or him). I’m sure you understand.

As a new blogger, I am trying to get the hang of doing it daily, and eventually hollering at y’all everyday. In the meantime, just dropping some fall trend coat pics to include any animal prints, leopard, zebra. My personal favorite is leopard, but hey whose gonna check  you sis? Do you! Check out the  2017 Rolling Stone cover of my boo Cardi rocking a leopard trench designed by Adrienne Landau. Super cute staple to have this fall, or anything similar….ok, anything trench really. And yes…I know it’s now 2018, about to 2019 but that just goes to show you how we can recycle our fashion Staples we already have in our closet. If not, check out your local thrift store, you never know what hidden gems are there until you look. But only if and when you’re in the mood. I feel ya girl. *deep sigh

I wanna know…how do you guys feel about a trench coat? Growing up, I didn’t care for them because I didn’t appreciate the character and authenticity of a trench coat. And the fact that I didn’t like sitting on them lol, I felt a bit uncomfortable. But now, I’s a grown women’s and I think I can manage lol .

Also, Sleigh belles…..it doesn’t have to be super, cape-long. Check out this Burberry trench Selena is slaying, just giving us all kinds of schnack tease🔥😩💯


Okuuuuuurrrr!! So have fun with it. Thanks for listening babes, and always remember that self confidence is the first layer to any outfit, so own it, rock it, shut it down. 💅Later Lovelies.


Hidden Agenda



War Room

Hey Love’s!

So I’m sure you’ve heard of the recent release of a film called War Room, and from what I hear…its about a woman who meets a client that shares with her the power of prayer.

I actually do plan to rent the movie just havent gotten around to it yet. Anyhoo….. so a family member shared with me how a guy she is dating suggested she try this practice. She told me bout the quick turnaround of results once she tried it. I mean….like jackpot miracles…that she had written down in her prayer closet and they were manifested within a week’s time. Right!

So here I am a couple of months later, after trying it myself and it truly does work. It is powerful and very spiritual and sacred. I find myself in my prayer closet not only at designated times that I’ve assigned myself, but even outside of those times. Prayers come into my heart, I write them down, place them on the wall and pray over them and leave them there. Its like my own little altar that I can literally run to whenever I feel the urge to show my gratitude or to communicate with God about an issue, thought or idea.

I put pictures of my little ones as I am always praying fiercely for them, their protection, etc. Make your space a peaceful, comforting, inviting space to talk to God, preferrably with a door. You’ll want to make sure your space has a door or some sort of divider to block out distractions. I only have my walk in closet as an extra space for it right now until I clean out my basement storage. We won’t get into that foolery chile.

However, any relationship that you want to grow, you must put some effort into cultivating it. And so it is with your relationship with the Creator. Its no different. Put a little energy and creativity in your spiritual journey and watch God do the impossible in your life.

I can remember Destiny’s Child album title ‘The Writing’s on the Wall’. Turns out whole time they were on to something and had wisdom “beyond their years”. The Bible also talks about ‘writing the vision down amd making it plain’. Welp, here it is. Clear cut and super easy to do. I’ve fallen in love with this prayer life thing, it gives me comfort and peace like no other.

A lot of times I find myself in there thanking Him for the prayers He’s already answered. Once those prayers are answered, I move them to the other side of the wall. You cam find thess sticky notes in Dollar Tree, Staples, Target, places like that.

If you’re looking to turn your life around, or to boost your prayer life by 1000, this practice is a must try. Thank me later. 😘